Saturday, September 29, 2007

Passport, guesthouse, contractions....

OK...so a few things have happened since my last update! On Friday we went souvenir shopping all morning and then came back for a quick lunch before heading to the Immigration Office for the passport. We ran into Pastor Augustine in morning and he called the Director and he apologized for the passport not being ready on Thursday and assured us that it would be ready today. Praise God...we went in the office and it was ready and waiting for us! We were so excited...one more thing done and now just lodging to find (in 2 days!). When we were in the immigration office Brock was holding JP and a Rwandan man came up to us and said, "Your baby???" (with a puzzled look). We said, "yes, he is our boy!" The man started giggling and patting Brock on the shoulder and said, "Strange, very strange!" It was so funny...he could barely speak english, but he knew enough to make us laugh!!!
After getting the passport we continued the hunt for lodging in Kenya...it was not looking good and I am so thankful that Robin kinda took over the search for me using the internet and making the phone calls... We were starting to get a little nervous and yet I knew it would all work out eventually. We called a few places and there was no room for us anywhere. YIKES! At about 5:00 that evening we finally got through to a Methodist Guest House in Nairobi and they had room and the receptionist said that they are only 2-3 miles from the US Embassy. We were so relieved for God's provision of a place to stay. You can check it out online to see pictures...it looks really nice; a pool and a business center so I should have wireless internet so that I can try out the phone program on the laptop and hopefully talk to the kids soon. http://www.methodistguesthouseke.com/ Then today Robin was talking to a friend of hers telling her about it and her friend had actually stayed there before and said it was very nice. Praise God AGAIN!!!
Today JP was being kinda fussy..he has cut 2 teeth this week!!! So we left him here with Robin thinking he would take a good long nap while we went to the orphanage to pick up JP's immunization records. When we returned much later she said he only slept 20 minutes! Little goober!! She said he ate non-stop all day! I might need to get a part time job to cover the new grocery bill!
At the orphanage we asked how all the babies were doing and the sister said that they were all doing much better. It turns out it was NOT meningitis after all. The docotrs came to run the tests and it was something else entirely...some virus. A few babies went to the hospital but it sounded like it was more to prevent the spread to other kids.
After the orphanage we went to run a few errands and then we were going to visit Peter and Ruth at their home. When we got there we learned that Ruth had begun having contractions. She said they started earlier that day and that her water had dripped a little. I started timing her contractions and they were about 5 minutes apart and 30 seconds long. I told her that we should go pack her bag because it was almost time to go to the hospital.. By the time we got in the car to bring her to the hospital her contractions were about 2 minutes apart. You would not believe the condition of the roads we had to travel on to get to the hospital....I don't know how she handled all the bumps so well. She was quite a trooper. Just another evidence of God's perfect timing...if we did not visit her when we did she may not have had a ride to the hopspital. She had no idea she was ready to go to the hospital...we had to explain the timing of contractions and what it all meant. She is adorable with the most beautiful smile. I think instead of catching a church service we may go to the hospital to see the baby before our flight to Kenya.
We didn't get back home until 5:00 so poor Robin had JP all day with no nap! It's hard to believe we have only been gone a week...it feels much longer.

Friday, September 28, 2007

Passport problems...oh dear!

Hello everyone. Yesterday was a pretty relaxing day. We just hung out here at the house for most of the day until it was time to go pick up the passport. Pastor Augustine stopped by in the morning and he called the director of immigration to make sure that the passport was ready. He said is WAS! However, when we got there to pick it up they said it was not ready. GO FIGURE... We had dinner at Pastor Augustine's house last night and when I told him what happened he said he would take care of it today. So we are praying that the passport really will be ready today so that we don't have to change our flights! Also the guest house that told us yesterday morning that they had rooms and would hold one for us emailed last night to say that they had guests that wanted to extend their stay so they could not accomodate us after all. So we are back on the hunt for a place to stay in Kenya with 2 days to figure it out! I'm sure it will all fall into place and we will be exactly where God wants us to be. I think today we will go to the Genocide Memorial and of course to Immigration to get the passport and maybe there will be time for a little shopping. We will see. I guess that is all for now.

Thursday, September 27, 2007

The latest...


Yesterday we left at 8:30 in the morning to go on a safari. It took 2 hours to get there and then it was a 4 hour loop through the game park. It was really cool. We saw water buffalo, giraffes, warthogs, hippos, baboon, velvet monkeys...etc. The giraffes were my favorite. JP was so good all day in the car. We didn't get home until after 7:00pm.
Today is the day we pick up JP's passport and we might go to the Genocide Memorial too.
A few things we have noticed about JP.....
He wants to be held 24/7
When he is tired he rubs and scratches his head
He is really smart...I will make a noise or a face and he will stare at me for a minute as I repeat a few times and then he does it.
He is tough too...he just whacked his head on the table and doesn't even cry...by the way daddy was in charge at that moment not me....
His feet are so small compared to his chubby body
He can sit up by himself but no crawling or standing yet, but I think he'll be crawling very soon.
He sucks on his pointer and middle finger when he is tired.
For those of you who might be concerned about the meningitis outbreak at the orphanage...let me try to set your mind at ease...They had viral meningitis which is usually not life threatening if treated properly. Yes, it is contagious however we have had JP for 5 days now and he continues to be the picture of health. The symptoms for viral meningitis in babies are...
fever and chills
NO interest in eating
lathargic
vomitting and diarehea
fussy when handled
JP is the polar opposite of ALL of these symptoms. The incubation period is usually a few days so if he was going to get sick...he should have started with at least one syptom by now. Also...Rich and Robin have over 30 years experience in nursing and they have commented more than once at how healthy he is...not even a diaper rash..his biggest problem is a little constipation! I hope that helps and that you can be assured that he is doing great and being monitored!
We just made our Kenya arrangements this morning. We will be staying at the Heart Lodge with the couple we met the other day. They gave us the brochure and when we called they still had room! YIPPEE!

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

God's perfect timing!

It is now Wed morning and we are going to go on safari today since we have no adoption paperwork to do. I’m so excited!!! JP is such a good baby. He sleeps through the night and is very happy and playful. He is so funny…he can be laughing one minute and then turn very serious the next.

One other thing I forgot to mention was how God’s timing was so perfect. When we met up with the other couple at immigration yesterday they told us that the babies at the orphanage were suffering from an outbreak of meningitis. It seemed like such a quick decision at the time to only have 3 days to get ready to travel but now we know why. It is very possible that if we had not left when we did…JP could have become VERY sick. Just another example of how God’s timing is PERFECT!!!

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

A Whirlwind of activity!

Well here we are only 5 days from flying to Kenya and we still do not know where we will be staying....a little stressful...yeah! We are looking into a guest house that we heard about from another couple that is here adopting a baby boy. Actually we leave on the same flight to Kenya on Sunday. I met her at the immigration office this afternoon. The funny thing is that I had been in contact with her before through an adoption chat room and here we are in Africa at the same time and maybe we will spend 2 weeks together in Kenya if this particular guest house has room. I wish I could tell you everything that has happened in the past 24 hours but I’m sure I would bore you to tears so I will just say that we spent ALL day driving from one office to another trying to fulfill each demand of the minister and immigration. It was not looking good last night and I think I prayed most of the night instead of sleeping. There were some loose ends that needed tying up and it seemed there was noone willing to do any tying. There are only 2 notaries to certify documents in ALL of Rwanda and one of them was sick and the other has been on maternity leave for the last month or so and they were not expecting her back at all this week!!! As Brock and Robin were talking to the receptionist who was unsympathetic at the time…he began to pray…within minutes this woman not only became sympathetic but she made a way for us to have the documents taken care of the next day! There are so many other stories and I hope that over the next few days I can journal them all to remember all the amazing things God has done in these past 24 hours. As it stands we have everything complete! We were told this afternoon by the director of immigration to come back on Thursday to pick up JP’s passport. We then will have a few days rest and then it is off to Kenya to see what craziness awaits there!

Monday, September 24, 2007

A belly laugh and some more hurdles to jump!

We had a great day with JP yesterday and we had decided to tell the sister that we were concerned about the sickness of the other babies and would prefer to bring him home with us to sleep. When we got there...you could hear the babies wailing! Brock and Rich went down to where the babies are and two of the sisters had babies out in the hall and were putting IVs in them. Apparently many of the babies had a virus or something that is causing vomitting and diarhea and were in danger of dehydration. Praise God we got JP out of there before he got sick too. He slept all night long sucking 2 of his fingers! We even got him smiling a little yesterday. Today I was able to get giggles and 1 big belly laugh! We had a very busy morning going to all the offices to try to complete paperwork. We ran into a few problems where God intervened within minutes and now we have run into another issue with immigration (concerning the passport). They are back to saying they need the paperwork from the minister before they will start processing it. We are fervently praying that the minister's office will be able to give us the document tomorrow so that the passport will be done in time for our flight this weekend. We have tried to call a few times and will continue to try throughout the day. I heard that Rich was able to send a picture to the pastors at church and that they showed it on the big screen on Sunday! He thought that my picture went through the day before. So Rich apologizes to friends and family who do not attend Grace Capital and have not seen a picture yet. We wil try again to send a few more pictures. JP says DA DA DA. We just heard from the woman at the minister's office and there is hope...but I have an hour to be the vessel for God to work another miracle...I'll let you know how it goes.

Sunday, September 23, 2007

Day 2 with JP!

Hello all...it is about 1:00pm here in Rwanda and we went this morning to the orphanage to spend some time with JP. We waited about 10 minutes and finally the guard went to go find a nun. Within minutes a nun came up the stairs with JP. She handed him to me and he didn't cry!!! We decided to take him back to Rich and Robin's house because apparently a bunch aof the babies are sick and we didn't want him getting sick. He snuggled me the entire ride back to the house. We fed him a bottle and he inhaled it in about a minute...seriously!!! He continued to snuggle for quite a while on the couch and he seemed tired so we tried to put him to bed but he wanted no part of that. I wanted to change his clothes as they seemed too small for him and they were flowery girls pants and a yellow flowered shirt with a girly collar. =) So he cried a little while I changed his clothes and put on a disposble diaper. We were able to distract him with some toys for a while. He seemed to be itchy so we gave him a bath and he LOVED it. After his tubby we rubbed lotion all over him and he played with a little toy and began to coo and really come alive a little bit. He even smiled a few times. What a great day and what an easy baby. I cannot get over how chubby he is. The sister asked us to return around 5:30 so that they could get him settled back in before their time of prayer, but Brock and I decided to tell them that since we had such a successful day of bonding with him we would feel more comfortable keeping him with us so that he does not get exposed to any sickness. We are praying that they don't have a problem with that. He is beautiful as everyone has said. So far he doesnt smile easily but when he does it's adorable. Take care...I'm sure you'll be hearing from me soon. Oh...by the way when we got to London I got an email from Peter saying that he went back AGAIN to the immigration office and this time they let him submit the paperwork!!!!! Praise God. We head tomorrow morning to all the different offices to get all paperwork completed.